الخميس، 10 يونيو 2021

‘Your baby’s heart has stopped’: hell and healing after the stillbirth of my son

In 2010, Katie Allen was days from giving birth to her second child when she felt his movements slow. She talks about the ordeal – and how she was helped through it

I woke to the barely there contractions of early labour. It was a few days before my due date in my second pregnancy – a pregnancy seemingly without complications. The Moses basket was out and my hospital bag packed; everything was ready for our baby boy. He was kicking as normal.

As the day went on, my contractions remained mild and far apart. I kept to the plan discussed with our midwives: stay at home as long as possible, no rushing to the maternity ward. I took our two-year-old son, Alex, for a walk with a friend and we collected conkers. When I sang Twinkle Twinkle, Little Star at Alex’s bedtime, the baby kicked hard, as he had done most days, as if he recognised the song, knew our routine.

I thought stillbirth happened centuries ago. I did not know a full-term baby could simply stop living in the womb

Things just happen, no reason. Nature is wonderful and cruel

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from Pregnancy | The Guardian https://ift.tt/2SrCFfP

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