الثلاثاء، 24 أبريل 2018

Don’t save it for the duchess. All new mothers should be treated like royalty | Gaby Hinsliff

Rather than treating royal births as mundane events, why don’t we celebrate all the ordinary women who give birth

A woman has had a baby. I know! Amazing, really. It’s baby-shaped, as far as we can tell under the blanket, and appears more than capable of doing things newborn babies generally do, such as lying there. It may do other baby-like things soon, such as having a name. More as we get it.

And yet let’s not be churlish here. The reason pictures of the Duchess of Cambridge on the hospital steps still resonate for many, achingly fashionable as it is to wish the whole circus would just go away, isn’t just that they evoke fond parental memories. It’s that being pregnant and having a baby even of the non-royal variety is such a weirdly visible thing to do. Everyone feels a sense of ownership when you’re pregnant. Everyone feels the need to ask inappropriately intimate questions or pat the bump or offer advice about going back to work, plus in some cases bare-faced nagging dressed up as attempts to be helpful. The world’s cameras may not literally be trained on every new mother but at times it damn well feels like it.

Related: Royal births – grit, fortitude and impressive fashion sense

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