الثلاثاء، 30 أبريل 2019

Maternity services in special measures at two Wales NHS hospitals

Move follows uncovering of failings that may have put lives of women and babies at risk

Maternity services provided at two NHS hospitals in south Wales have been put into special measures after a report found a series of failings that may have put the lives of women and babies at risk.

An investigation into maternity units at Cwm Taf University health board raised “significant concerns” around staffing, processes and culture that it said compromised care.

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الاثنين، 29 أبريل 2019

I feel grief and relief that I’ve never had children. Other women must share this | Katherine Baldwin

We have a choice about motherhood but it’s not always clear-cut, and ambivalence can be a painful place

In the last month, there’s been a run of fertility-related news stories, from the pregnancy figures that confirmed the trend towards later motherhood, to the suggestion that IVF clinics are exploiting older women, to the huge emotional and financial cost of failed IVF. But among them, I don’t hear about experiences that chime with my own, or with those of some of the women I coach – the women who are or were ambivalent about having children.

Ambivalence, from the Latin, means to be pulled strongly in two directions. This aptly describes my relationship to motherhood. I spent my 20s and early 30s avoiding having a baby at all costs as I built my career as a foreign correspondent. Back in London and approaching 40, a combination of factors sparked baby angst. There was my ticking biological clock, burnout in my job and my father’s death, which exposed my aloneness and made me question why I’d prioritised work over family.

Related: 'It's changed how I see the world': readers' views on parenthood and being child-free

I had zero desire to replicate my mother's life – divorce, two children and a shortage of cash

Related: Late motherhood is on the rise, but as one who knows, it has its downsides | Yvonne Roberts

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الأحد، 28 أبريل 2019

Five ways to exercise safely while pregnant

Exercise for mothers-to-be has many benefits – just avoid the high-intensity workouts and new PBs

A new study has found that exercising during pregnancy can protect offspring from obesity later in life – the first time that has been demonstrated for non-obese women. Dr Daghni Rajasingam, consultant obstetrician and spokesperson for the Royal College of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists, says there are many benefits for the mother-to-be, including weight maintenance, improving sleep and mood, helping to cope with labour, and reducing high blood pressure. At least 150 minutes of moderate-intensity activity a week, in bouts of at least 10 minutes, based on fitness level and comfort, is advised throughout pregnancy. Rajasingam also recommends seeking medical advice, especially for women with health conditions.

Related: How much can you exercise while pregnant?

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السبت، 27 أبريل 2019

My life as a midwife is nothing like it’s portrayed on TV

The smiling angels of Call the Midwife and hi-tech cheerleaders of documentaries create a simplistic and unhelpful impression

Sitting at my kitchen table, browsing the news online as I choked down some dinner before a night shift, I hit one of the lowest points of my career. Among the articles was a report about the growing number of heavily pregnant women left alone or sent away in labour, only to face hours of solitary pain or even having to give birth at the roadside on their way to hospital. Like a commuter rubbernecking at a rush-hour car crash, I couldn’t help but scroll down through the indignant comments under the story. Along with understandable sadness and frustration at the limitations of an underresourced, overburdened maternity service, there was a steady stream of vitriol directed at midwives – “a bunch of cruel, twisted gatekeepers”, as one angry person described us.

There was the proof in black and white – we were hated; I was hated. After reading this, I headed out to spend 12 hours caring for strangers while the rest of the world (and my own young family) slept.

Midwives are often shown in the media as either cunningly evil or beatifically benign

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الثلاثاء، 23 أبريل 2019

If even Beyoncé had a rough pregnancy, what hope do other black women have? | Derecka Purnell

A USA Today report showed black mothers suffer severe complications twice as often as white women

Last week, Beyoncé Knowles-Carter premiered Homecoming on Netflix. Three homegirls and I were glued on the navy sectional, journeying with Mrs Carter through her love for black colleges, black people, and black music. I’d seen the Coachella performance well over 50 times, memorizing the “Getting to the Money” routine for a dance challenge I never posted online. But this documentary included commentary and showcased her work ethic and diet, including the battle with her body during and after her second pregnancy with twins.

“I was 218 pounds the day I gave birth. I had an extremely difficult pregnancy. I had high blood pressure. I developed toxemia, preeclampsia,” Knowles-Carter explained. “...[O]ne of my babies’ hearts paused a few times, so I had to get an emergency C-section.”

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الأحد، 21 أبريل 2019

The Brink of Being by Julia Bueno review – we need to talk about miscarriage

A thoughtful study of pregnancy loss offers a candid discussion that few are prepared to have

It is estimated that one in four pregnancies ends in miscarriage, and yet it is an experience that remains largely ignored  –  a grief that the world seemingly doesn’t know how to talk about. In The Brink of Being, psychotherapist Julia Bueno draws on her own personal experience, stories from her consulting room, and interactions with experts, to examine miscarriage within its broader cultural, medical and historical context  – encouraging us to think more, and think differently, about pregnancy loss.

The heartbreaking loss of twin daughters, Matilda and Florence, at 22 weeks ripped Bueno’s world apart, leaving her irrevocably changed  – time now divided into the “before”, and the “after”. The acute feelings of despair, sadness, guilt, shame, bitterness, anger (and every other emotion in between), that so often accompany miscarriage, were only exacerbated by the lack of understanding of her suffering.

Losing a baby is such a big part of so many lives yet we’re mainly living it in the shadows, weighed down by feelings

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السبت، 20 أبريل 2019

National Childbirth Trust president quits in breastfeeding row

Charity must remain a campaigning voice for women, says ex-head Seána Talbot

For 60 years, it has been the UK’s go-to charity for expectant parents in need of antenatal advice and breastfeeding support. But last week the National Childbirth Trust (NCT) was plunged into crisis amid acrimonious rows about infant feeding and the type of postnatal support it offers, following the abrupt resignation of its president.

Seána Talbot, a volunteer who has twice been elected president by the charity’s 50,000 grassroots members, resigned earlier this month, saying the charity was being led in a direction she could not support.

Related: The National Childbirth Trust is now run by a man. Time for deep breaths | Catherine Bennett

For 60 years, we have supported mothers and families – I don’t believe we are moving away from that in any way.

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The dad who gave birth: ‘Being pregnant doesn't change me being a trans man’

Transitioning meant that Freddy McConnell finally felt comfortable in his skin. Then he began a quest to conceive and carry his own child

Freddy McConnell takes out his phone and shows me a film of his baby snoring contentedly. Jack is gorgeous, with blond hair, blue eyes and heavy eyelids, and McConnell is the classic doting dad – albeit more hands-on than most. It’s a year since he gave birth to Jack, an experience he describes as life-changing. He has also made an intimate and moving film about that experience, from the decision to have a baby, through pregnancy and the delivery. Everything is documented in close-up, including Jack’s arrival in a hospital birthing pool.

You might expect McConnell to be an extrovert; an exhibitionist, even. In fact, the Guardian multimedia journalist is reserved and private in a rather old-fashioned, stiff-upper-lip English way. So why on earth would he want to expose himself like this?

I think empathy is key in convincing people that trans people are actually quite normal

Testosterone and my transition changed everything and made life not just livable, but enjoyable

Men’s bellies sit very similarly to the way pregnant bellies sit. People read gender in less than a second

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الجمعة، 19 أبريل 2019

A letter to... new mothers, from a health visitor

I want to tell that you didn’t need to put on makeup, you didn’t even need to get dressed – certainly not on my account

You open the door with a smile, I see you are tired. You walk slowly and carefully. I wonder if you are in pain. I notice you are dressed, you’re wearing makeup. I wonder if this is for my benefit. Probably.

I sit and do my paperwork, conscious of the long lists of visits that will follow this one. There are a million things that I want to say to you.

Related: A letter to... the new mothers at the register office, 33 years ago

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World's smallest baby boy at birth to leave hospital in Japan

Mother of Ryusuke Sekino said: ‘It seemed he would break if I touched him. I was so worried’

When Ryusuke Sekino was born last October, his mother feared that even touching him could prove dangerous for his tiny frame.

Six months later, Ryusuke, believed to be the world’s smallest surviving baby boy, is preparing to leave hospital in central Japan on Saturday after his weight increased from 258g (9.1oz) at birth – roughly the weight of a pack of butter – to more than 3kg.

Related: Japan shrinking as birthrate falls to lowest level in history

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الأربعاء، 17 أبريل 2019

More women over 40 are getting pregnant. But is that really about their choices? | Zeynep Gurtin

An ONS report frames later motherhood in terms of women’s changing roles. But men’s decisions also affect fertility patterns

The trend for later motherhood is continuing apace. This week, the Office for National Statistics released new data on conception rates for women in England and Wales, showing that teenage pregnancy rates continued to decline in 2017, and that, for the first time, more women are getting pregnant in their 30s than in their 20s. But perhaps the most striking trend concerns fortysomethings, the only age group – for the second year running – whose conception rates are on the increase. This reflects a dramatic long-term shift: they have more than doubled since 1990.

Related: More women getting pregnant after 30 than in 20s for first time

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الثلاثاء، 16 أبريل 2019

Extra late-term scan could reduce need for caesareans, finds study

Proposal would cut costs for NHS and allow thousands more women to give birth naturally

Thousands of emergency caesarean sections could be avoided in the UK every year by scanning women in late pregnancy, research has suggested.

A routine ultrasound at 36 weeks would help detect babies in the breech position, which can lead to complications during labour, according to the study published in journal PLOS Medicine.

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الاثنين، 15 أبريل 2019

More women getting pregnant after 30 than in 20s for first time

Figures from England and Wales show long-term rise in pregnancies to women over 30

The number of pregnancies among women aged 30 and above in England and Wales has surpassed the number among women in their 20s for the first time since records began, the latest figures show.

The long-term rise in pregnancies to older women, which have more than doubled for those aged 40 and over since 1990, has been driven by women spending more time in education and in work, and by the rising opportunity costs of childbearing, according to the Office for National Statistics.

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الأحد، 14 أبريل 2019

A Deal With the Universe – touching documentary on an unusual pregnancy

Transgender director Jason Barker uses his home videos of trying for a baby to illuminating effect

Related: The story of one man’s pregnancy: ‘It felt joyous, amazing and brilliant’

This moving documentary follows transgender film-maker Jason Barker as he and his partner, Tracey, attempt to have a child. Built from intimate home video footage shot over a 15-year period, it tracks both partners’ numerous attempts to get pregnant with their own biological child. When Tracey is diagnosed with stage one breast cancer, Jason stops taking testosterone and begins various fertility treatments in the hope that, though he identifies as a man, his female body can provide them with a baby.

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السبت، 13 أبريل 2019

Meghan Markle’s home birth should not blind us to the risks for most women | Barbara Ellen

A decision by a notable mother doesn’t make the option less dangerous for others

Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s rumoured decision to have a home birth, and not arrange an immediate public photoshoot with the baby, has caused a furore, but for the wrong reasons.

Most of the focus has been on the “arrogance” of the couple – really meaning Meghan – for requesting some privacy before they pose with the baby. A prevailing attitude is that the public funds the royals and therefore has a “right” to photos. How creepy. All babies, even royal ones, “belong” only to their parents and in this respect Meghan and Harry owe the public zilch. Yet, how typical all this is – a huge row over froth and nonsense. Surely the far bigger issue is whether Meghan and Harry’s decision is going to popularise home births, but without driving home the risks and the need to plan meticulously.

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الجمعة، 12 أبريل 2019

Caesarean babies have lower level of 'good' gut bacteria, study shows

Research suggests surgical delivery may make babies more prone to respiratory infections

Babies delivered by caesarean section are slower to acquire certain types of “good bacteria” in their gut and have higher levels of potentially problematic bacteria than those born vaginally, researchers say.

A study of more than 100 babies showed that those born vaginally had a very different make-up of their gut microbiome (clusters of gut microbes), potentially making caesarean babies more prone to respiratory infections. The differences were found to reduce as the babies grew older.

Related: The human microbiome: why our microbes could be key to our health

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الخميس، 11 أبريل 2019

A Deal With the Universe review – one man's journey to having a baby

Jason Barker’s documentary about having to put his transitioning on hold while he tried to become pregnant is filled with gentleness

There’s tenderness and intimacy in this film from Jason Barker, a transgender man who has edited down 25 hours of video footage that he shot over eight years of trying to have a baby with his partner, Tracey, while at the same time pursuing the process of transitioning.

Tracey’s breast cancer and mastectomy was a blow that complicated matters. As they put it: “We started out with four breasts and we’ll be lucky to end up with one.” The film that has come out of this has a video diary or home movie feel, and what it arguably loses in discipline and focus – there are quite a few meandering shots of the view from their flat in East London, and the pigeons making an appearance on their balcony – it gains in emotional openness.

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الاثنين، 8 أبريل 2019

Meghan's pregnancy is fake? You wouldn't wish these trolls on your worst enemy

From the alt-right to white supremacists, the people attacking the Duchess of Sussex are a heady cocktail of haters

It is a story so eye-catching, so bizarre yet so strangely in keeping with the age, that even if you have never shown any interest in the royal family, it is transfixing. Trolls on the internet are saying that Meghan, Duchess of Sussex’s pregnancy is fake. It is a little bit more advanced than that: one has made a video describing how you can tell that her bump is prosthetic, and opining that this is why she is always holding it, to keep it in place. You can scoff, but that particular YouTuber has 30,000 followers.

This is a heady cocktail: there is a hardcore of Meghan-haters, who will critique her for everything, from using vegan paint to failing to consult the Queen about her birth plan. There are people, genuinely, who resent and despise anyone who is pregnant, and you can hear chimes of them in the tabloids accusing Meghan of “flaunting” her bump, as if the sheer visibility of the prospect of a baby is an act of female self-aggrandising. And then there is a dose of plain racism. Don’t forget that the last high-profile pregnant woman to be accused of faking the baby was Beyoncé.

Related: Poison and the papers: why tabloids are obsessed with Meghan ‘flaunting’ her bump

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الجمعة، 5 أبريل 2019

‘I want to want a baby’: can I kickstart my broody gene?

All around me, friends are pregnant or raising children – but I don’t feel the slightest twinge of brooodiness. Is this normal?

Scrolling through my Instagram feed, I come across a montage of celebrity fathers with their children. A roll call of shirtless A-listers cradle naked-mole-rat-pink babies in their arms like Athena posters, or parade their own mini-mes in tiny tuxedos and bow ties. “I can’t cope,” says one commenter with a flurry of baby-bottle emojis. “My ovaries are about to explode,” warns another. I pause. Frown. Put the phone away, smooth down my trousers and concede the following: there is something very wrong with me.

My confession is this: I am a married, solvent-ish woman approaching 34 and I am not – and never have been – broody. It’s a sentiment that eludes me, and has done for years. I always banked on suddenly waking up one day and needing a child – as if broodiness were an amorphous thing that would abruptly materialise at some point. But still, it is not here.

I wear a fake belly. I look after my nephew, and am amused, confused, exhausted – but not broody

Related: My life as a mother: all I can think about is how tired I am | Emma Brockes

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الثلاثاء، 2 أبريل 2019

Seahorse: exclusive trailer for documentary about the dad who gave birth – video

Watch the trailer for Seahorse, a new feature-length documentary produced in association with the Guardian, about  one trans man’s pioneering quest to start his own family. The is the story of the dad who gave birth.

Freddy is 30 and yearns to start a family but for him this ordinary desire comes with unique challenges. He is a gay transgender man. Deciding to carry his own baby took years of soul searching, but nothing could prepare him for the reality of pregnancy, as both a physical experience and one that challenges society's fundamental understanding of gender, parenthood and family. 

Made with unprecedented access and collaboration over three years, the film follows Freddy from preparing to conceive right through to birth.  The film, directed by Jeanie Finlay, premieres at the Tribeca Film Festival at the end of April, and will play in the UK later this year.

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